The idea of cultivation and exercise, so dear to the saints of old, has now no place in our total religious picture. It is too slow, too common. We now demand glamour and fast flowing dramatic action. A generation of Christians reared among push buttons and automatic machines is impatient of slower and less direct methods of reaching their goals. We have been trying to apply machine-age methods to our relations with God. We read our chapter, have our short devotions and rush away, hoping to make up for our deep inward bankruptcy by attending another gospel meeting or listening to another thrilling story told by a religious adventurer lately returned from afar.
The tragic results of this spirit are all about us. Shallow lives, hollow religious philosophies, and preponderance of the element of fun in gospel meetings, the glorification of men, trust in religious externalities, quasi-religious fellowships, salesmanship methods, the mistaking of dynamic personality for the power of the Spirit: these and such as these are the symptoms of an evil disease, a deep and serious malady of the soul.
For this great sickness that is upon us no one person is responsible, and no Christian is wholly free from blame. We have all contributed, directly or indirectly, to this sad state of affairs. We have been too blind to see, or too timid to speak out, or too self-satisfied to desire anything better than the poor average diet with which others appear satisfied. To put it differently, we have accepted one another's notions, copied one another's lives and made one another's experiences the model for our own. And for a generation the trend has been downward. Now we have reached a low place of sand and burnt wire grass and, worst of all, we have made the Word of Truth conform to our experience and accepted this low plane as the very pasture of the blessed.
It will require a determined heart and more than a little courage to wrench ourselves loose from the grip of our times and return to Biblical ways. But it can be done. [...]
What God in His sovereignty may yet do on a world-scale I do not claim to know: but what He will do for the plain man or woman who seeks His face I believe I do know and can tell others. Let any man turn to God in earnest, let him begin to exercise himself unto godliness, let him seek to develop his powers of spiritual receptivity by trust and obedience and humility, and the results will exceed anything he may have hoped in his leaner and weaker days.
Any man who by repentance and a sincere return to God will break himself out of the mold in which he has been held, and will go to the Bible itself for his spiritual standards, will be delighted with what he finds there.
Let us say it again: The Universal Presence is a fact. God is here. The whole universe is alive with His life. And He is no strange or foreign God, but the familiar Father of our Lord Jesus Christ whose love has for these thousands of years enfolded the sinful race of men. And always He is trying to get our attention, to reveal Himself to us, to communicate with us. We have within us the ability to know Him if we will but respond to His overtures. (And this we call pursuing God!) We will know Him in increasing degree as our receptivity becomes more perfect by faith and love and practice.
O God and Father, I repent of my sinful preoccupation with visible things. The world has been too much with me. Thou hast been here and I knew it not. I have been blind to Thy Presence. Open my eyes that I may behold Thee in and around me. For Christ's sake, Amen.
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From the beginning of our adoption journey (which started back in 2012), we have been bombarded with book recommendations and human examples that we were encouraged to explore, follow, and emulate. In the two and a half years since we met and began our journey with our five children, we have faced praise and adulation for our choices to follow God and turn our world #rightsideup. The reality is that we neither agree with the human "wisdom" found in the training books nor have we modeled our parenting choices after those who have adopted before us. Nor do we deserve any accolades for (reluctantly) following what God told us to do.
We didn't adopt because someone else we knew had. We didn't adopt because we wanted children (read our story to know why that wasn't the case!). We didn't adopt because we were looking to find fulfillment or scratch a spiritual itch. We didn't adopt because we were inspired by a book or a video. We adopted because we chose to obey a calling. Because we made a choice to trust God, even when we thought He had the wrong people. Adoption was our way of choosing to pursue God.
I have had parents come up to me and say, "Why are things going so well for you? What are you doing? Do you have any recommendations?" Yes, yes I do, and it's so simple you won't believe me. Devour Proverbs. Read Deuteronomy 11. Don't ignore the truth of God's Word. Throw out the adoption and parenting books written by so-called experts, and listen to the One who created your children. In our baptism-by-fire parenting experience, the biggest lesson we have learned is that if we want to be the parents these kids need, we MUST pursue God in our own lives. We must become receptive to what He wants us to learn, and how He wants us to engage and interact with the children (and others). We must break ourselves out of the mold to which we have become comfortably accustomed, and go to the Bible for our spiritual (and parenting) standards. We must actively pursue the things of God - as individuals, and as (adoptive) parents.
Tozer reminds us that "we have accepted one another's notions, copied one another's lives and made one another's experiences the model for our own." Stop looking at everyone else, accepting their solutions for discipline and structure, copying their choices and wishing for their experiences. God didn't give you their life. He didn't give you those kids. He didn't allow you to experience everything that has brought them to this point. Stop looking back towards Egypt and start being open to what God has for you - uniquely you - and those that He has allowed you to influence. In order to be the parent (or spouse or friend or co-worker or child) that God wants you to be, you must put aside all worldly wisdom and actively, passionately, and proactively pursue a deeper relationship with our Maker. I guarantee that you will be amazed and humbled by the results.
Tozer reminds us that "we have accepted one another's notions, copied one another's lives and made one another's experiences the model for our own." Stop looking at everyone else, accepting their solutions for discipline and structure, copying their choices and wishing for their experiences. God didn't give you their life. He didn't give you those kids. He didn't allow you to experience everything that has brought them to this point. Stop looking back towards Egypt and start being open to what God has for you - uniquely you - and those that He has allowed you to influence. In order to be the parent (or spouse or friend or co-worker or child) that God wants you to be, you must put aside all worldly wisdom and actively, passionately, and proactively pursue a deeper relationship with our Maker. I guarantee that you will be amazed and humbled by the results.
